I’m not one to criticize other people, and especially other people’s relationships, because that’s just not my style.  But this is bugging, annoying, bothering the hell out of me, no, I take that back. It’s bothering the fuck out of me.

Ness’ brother lives with us. He’s a good guy, but he has a tendency to act like a huge asshole on occasion. That’s fine though, because he means well, he just doesn’t think things through completely, and sometimes just doesn’t even think. But, whatever, because I can overlook that. I do that too sometimes.

About a month ago he started dating this girl. She happened to be one of his employees and because of this, he got demoted. Whatever. He knew it would happen if they got caught. Besides, it’s a lot better than meeting the girls he’s dated previously for a week at a time and not knowing their names. Then we find out that she’s twenty. I’m not usually a person to judge based on age, but it explained a lot about her once I found this out. For example, the fact that she doesn’t clean after herself, uses other people’s bathroom essentials and doesn’t replace them…basically, she’s a spoiled brat. In some regards she reminds me of one of my sisters.

I never really knew how old Ness’ brother was. All I knew was a) he was older, b) he has two kids, and c) he’s going through a custody battle with his psycho ex-girlfriend. Trust me, she’s psycho, I’ve met her. So, the guy is older than me and he’s in a pretty sticky situation. Turns out, he’s 35. He’s 35? He’s dating someone that’s 20? Dude. She’s almost half your age! I don’t have a problem with people dating younger people, or older people, but there’s a limit to where I think it’s ok. And besides, he was dating someone his own age who was way more personable and better looking but he fucks that up to date a spoiled, bitchy, twenty year old?

That’s not even my problem with it. I could give a shit who he dates, but when who he dates negatively impacts my life, and Ness’ life, I have a problem with it. Ever since she’s been staying here, I’ve only ever seen her sober a few times. Like when she just gets home from work, she’s sober. Other than that, she’s always drinking. Dude, she’s 20. What are you doing buying her alcohol? If something happens, like oh, I don’t know, your psycho ex girlfriend who lives 4 minutes away decides to come over and cause a scene and finds your current girlfriend drunk, do you really think that’s going to help you in your custody case? No. I’ve seen her drive around the block a few times a day and I have a feeling that if she’s pissed off, she might just stop by.

So, I live with a twenty year old alcoholic. Great.

If you haven’t known, the past week I’ve been sick. I had a bitch of a cold and slept most of the past week. I’m still sick but at least I’m able to stay awake for more than 30 minutes and not pass out. The other day I was taking a nap on the couch. I’d wake up often and cough up a lung or blow my nose a gazillion times. Everyone in the house knew I was sick. She knew I was on the couch. She literally goes out of her way to wake me up and keep me awake by being really fucking loud. If you have to be loud, shut a fucking door, at least.

I’ve said previously that she doesn’t clean after herself. The shower is disgusting. I don’t want to clean up someone else’s hair in order to take a shower. Seriously, how long does it take to spray down the shower and pick up some hair? Like two minutes? You can’t do that? I have OCD, if the shower is dirty, I can’t take a shower. Even if I clean it, I can’t do it. And I can’t clean someone else’s bodily hair. I can’t. I gag and puke. It’s not fun.

Even with all this…she has the personality of a fucking rock. Not even a rock, a pebble. A grain of sand. She’s annoying. She’s a pain in my ass. It’s like having my sister live here. Seriously. I’m so annoyed by her that I’m literally about to bust open a huge can of “I kick her ass” really soon. She’s rude, disrespectful, and annoying. Go back and live with your mom. Whatever. Just get the hell out of here. It’s so bad that I’m seriously thinking of going back to New York just to avoid her.

You know, I’m not even this person. I’m the kind of person that’s just really laid back and I get along with everyone because I just don’t give a fuck. But there’s something about her that just pushes my buttons in all the wrong places and makes me want to kick her ass. And part of me thinks, no dude, I can’t kick a girls ass, but then I remember, I’m physically still a girl, so I could kick her ass.